What we all need and have in common. ♥
- I see you. I hear you. And what you say matters to me.
Oprah Winfrey said that the one thing that all her 30.000 guests had in common, and what we all human beings have in common is to know that someone can see us, hear us and that what we say matters to them.
So validate everyone, I see you, I hear you, and what you say matters to me.
Important insight! ♥
- Nobody but you is responsible for your life. It doesn't matter what your mama did; it doesn't matter what your daddy didn't do. You are responsible for your life. ... You are responsible for the energy that you create for yourself, and you're responsible for the energy that you bring to others. - Oprah Winfrey
- Whispers are always messages, and if you don't hear the message, the message turns into a problem. And if you don't handle the problem, the problem turns into a crisis. And if you don't handle the crisis, disaster. Your life is speaking to you. What is it saying? - Oprah Winfrey
A real man. ♥
A typical man will give his woman reasons to be jealous of other women. A real man will make other women extremely jealous of his queen.
Funny huh? ;) Think about it.
Written in the stars.
Ohh, written in the stars
A million miles away
A message to the main...
Seasons come and go
But I will never change
and Im on my waaaaaay...
I cant get this song out of my head, and KARMIN - these two people are just great.
Integrity. ♥
Living with integrity means:
- Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships.
- Asking for what you want and need from others.
- Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension.
- Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values.
- Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe.
Power of the mind. ♥
Your mind is advanced.
Your mind can cause emotions.
Emotions that bring you up
Emotions that bring you down
Emotions that you feel you cant control
The power of the mind,
is the greatest power of them all.
You just need to find a way to understand and control this power of yours.
Experience-bag. ♥
I know human beings are not always nice,
sometimes they're even your worst nightmare.
Whatever they do to you and whatever bad thing that happens to you,
I want you to look at it as an experience.
You can put it in your experience-bag and take it with you in life
That experience-bag gets heavier the more experience you put in it,
In time to that you will get stronger and I know you will pull it off
- how heavy that it may be.
I believe that everything, at least most of the things, that happen around us happen for a reason
So that we and our boundries are tested.
Remember that we all are on our own path in this world, and our paths happen to intervene with each other
We end up dealing with things we've never dealt with before
We may have to make difficult decisions, get hurt, lose something or someone we love,
and millions of other things.
Thats how we develop.
Im not a master, so dont call me that
Even if I were, I wouldnt want you to call me that.
Degrees, looks, wealth and all those other shallow things are only surface-material,
and beneath those - we're all just the same. Some people think and act as if they're better than you,
and at times they swell so much that you even believe their act of shame.
Life isnt about that. Who are you to believe you're better than someone else?
Next time someone acts like they're better than you just because they have more money, live in a nicer place, have some special degree, some "fancy" job, can afford more expensive things and whatever sick thing that has made them believe they're better - just remember: their poop smells just as bad as yours do.
Money, success or even looks doesnt corrupt people (as a wise friend of mine said) - it exposes them. These are only trials in life.
Ive made it clear before in some post that Im not trying to preach. Before telling you to be aware of these things, I try to tell and remind myself.
Mazi, nane jan, you inspired me to write this.
I love you, and I care about you -
this is my way of showing that.
